The huge amount of pressure on young girls to let their boyfriends get away with everything and not to stand up for themselves, lest they stop being a ‘chill girlfriend’ and instead become a horrible, controlling harpy is such bullshit.
Stop teaching young girls that demanding to be treated with respect and courtesy makes them shrill, over-emotional, or unworthy of listening to.
“Love is like you become more you but now it’s ok. Because the person, whoever it is, chose to take all that on. All that weird stuff, whatever’s wrong or bad or hiding in you. Suddenly, it’s alright. And you don’t feel like such a freak anymore.”—Suzanne “Crazy Eyes” Warren (via ohbloodyhell-gnight)